#DifferentThinking

We generally come across the discussion and talk more about the Heads who are hard task masters and keep pushing team members to the wall & to the last corner in their routine as a practice with hardly considerations of soft issues of team members who reports into him or her.

I strongly feel that such strategy never yields positive results, maybe temporarily things look brighter but in the long run its more denting not only to the team, organisation but also for the individuals who all believe in this philosophy .

One needs to understand that we are still dealing with human beings whose action are results of their thoughts and emotions unlike machines which act as per standard commands .

The more we push them the more resistance gets generated in their thoughts as no one likes to be controlled. Human beings always look for freedom and suffer restrictions & limitations the most.

• |Mind and Body functions at its best when they are joyful and not stressed out.
• The way we feel, the way we think-The way we think , the way we feel.
• Mind is not capable of thinking good and bad at the same time.

I have experienced this surprisingly other way round and have always come across a beautiful team around which has always been most loving,responsive and  far better than machines because always found them acting without command, going extra miles and beyond the call of duty ultimately exceeding expectations.

Having analysed this to my surprise sounded & seemed very simple rather any rocket science. I could summarize this that if one tries to #find out & care for what team members want in life performance would automatically follow.

The perspective of Heads is always that they expect their team members not only work hard but to exceed the performance that too constantly.

But the question is how to engage team so that they are not only productive but deliver a level which is far than the expectations. This certainly needs a different thinking.

#Find Out What They Want In Life

Do not ask yourself how to get more out of the team instead ask yourself how do I get what people want in life.

Not what they need in their business life but what they need in personal life.

Don't think how this relates to my business. This will come.

#Find Out How To Get Them

Once we discover what is important to them strive harder how to get them what they dream of.

The best way to unlock the potential of the team members is to help them achieve what they value in life. When this happens they start going extra mile at work unconditionally.

The more we make them realize that our efforts are there to help them in life -The more we unlock the potential.

#Different Thinking

Its not about what team does for you but definitely what the company and you do for them. Its not what people do for the business but its about what business does for the people.

People  forget soon what you say but never forget how you make them feel.

#BeyondBirthBeyondDeath

Quite unfortunate, many untimely and unexpected end of the journey of our great leaders recently who all being & shall be remembered for the traits they possessed and great contribution all of them made building our proud nation. Such sad moments force every human being to pause and pick some tips to conduct this life.

#Do It Now

In our daily routine we tend to forget that we are very much mortal and act & behave like  we are going to live on this mother earth forever.'

I am sure one day we will come for everyone when there would be no time to perform anything we wanted to do.

Time to realize mortal nature of this body and use this limited period of time and energy consciously so that none of us regret at the end.

#Foundation We Build:
Every human being might not be super but being human is seriously Super.We all human beings possess a great super power to change and transform ourselves,things and situation around us.

But unfortunate most of us  restrict ourselves to the self and fail to realize this potential and duty to contribute for a greater cause which is above self.

Each one of us must think of creating some legacy which we can be proud of, ultimately we need to know that what shall we be remembered for in our absence.

#Persona We Carry
Aren't we too full of ourselves most of the time'?

When we know the fact that NO amount of money, power, status , position we gather here will remain here and can't be transported along at the end, doesn't it make sense to be kind and walk more gently on this earth and be more inclusive & loving to everyone around?

#Beyond Birth And Beyond Death
We are remembered for our values , characters and the legacy we leave through our actions during our very limited time we spend out here on this planet.

Its very important that we conduct our lives more consciously so as to lead a exemplary journey which is full of compassion and  shall work as a positive and inspiring force in our absence for the generation to come .

The life of our legacy , character , values and personality we exhibit has a longer life than our actual body life. Lets give our hand to people who need it more and don't compromise on our values and reputation.

#Safar OR Suffer

#Goals Not So Imp

Most of us seem to be busy reaching out to the variety of the goals we set one after another in every phase of life.

This tendency of chasing goals & interested only in goals has shaped us so much goal oriented & focused that we damn care about the journey & the process .



#Right Approach

Since we are mortals and playing temporary roles, don't you think reaching destination is not so important but how joyfully we reach the destination & reach to goals is what matters the most.

# Clarity We Need

I believe that this idea of wanting mango only with least interest in caring & nurturing of the tree leading us to endless stress,misery restlessness and frustrations despite having best of the enablers, ease and opportunities these days.


#Conclusion

I think we are always trying to work at what is beyond us ,not taking care of what is in our hands.

#Solution-Let The Tree Decide The Taste

We need to understand that fruit is going to be natural & automated consequence of caring and nurturing the process .

lets be fully involved in the daily process & activities
of whatever we are dealing with without being so serious and worry much

Whatever we do -Lets do it well.

#GivingBack

The questions like "How one should live ? What to do or not to do to lead a good life?''top the chart most of the time in our mind.

I personally believe and strongly endorse that there are #3 basic fundamentals to lead a satisfactory & fulfilled life.

#1 Hard work:

We need to  understand that whatever we are into either into job ,business,services and sports or sitting ideal at home for that matter,we definitely are searching for happiness in our work . Hard-Work is a very essential ingredient which most of us either avoid or seems to be afraid of.

This becomes highly imperative that whatever we do, we must put our body, mind, soul and full energy into it not for any reason but for the very basic purpose of happiness which we are longing for as working halfheartedly is self damaging and doesn't serve the purpose.

Whatever we do joyfully becomes effortless. If you really care for something you don't have to be pushed then,

So finally there is no such word as hard-work it's basically only & only work if we start caring for whatever we do.

#2 Be life long student

We must learn to say that "I Don't Know''. This is a very powerful statement,the moment you utter these words that means you are open to new dimensions and willing to learn new things and finally become more receptive in nature.

Life is beautiful as it holds limitless dimensions which are more than sufficient for not making bored and keep us passionate , lively and enthusiastic.

One should understand briefness of this life and always aspire to explore which we haven't touched,felt or gone through yet.

I believe that all human beings are designed for bigger things not for simply eating,sleeping & routine stuff .
This unique creature on this cosmos unlike any other life is very well capable to go beyond and surpass their limitations which are mostly our own mind's created and doesn't exist actually.

Lets make good use of this inbuilt intelligence to find bigger & deserving happiness & joy ultimately its all our experiences which makes us feel better ,stronger and worthwhile.

#3 Give Back

As responsible human beings its our duty that whatever capacity we may be operating in we must strive harder to encourage,guide and support the next generation by passing our experiences so that Gen-Y doesn't repeat the same mistakes and emerge as better & much more efficient human beings to lead a smarter,full-fledged , fulfilled and purposeful life.

Working for self & family should not be the question at all but what we give back or how to find the purpose in other's happiness must top the chart in our Thoughts and Mind.

Lets raise our consciousness above-self and inculcate a culture of #GivingBack

#DoLessGetMore

Make or Break:Each one of us as individuals do have the very loving inclination of Getting More but in turn most of us don't even wish to do what we are actually paid for,  irony is that in 99.99% of the cases its us who move forward and seek opportunities / assignments keenly.

This particular attitude & nature of "Doing less " which is higher in current generation and pretty hard to change if got entangled with in the initial stage, is the basic instinct what make or break individuals in their career as this partiular habit never pays.

This conditional thought process if developed at initial stage of career gets converted into a very  peculiar attitude which not only harm such individual but people around too.This nature is probably sure shot way to frustration which most of us suffers the most.


Extra Miles:

If we take a pause and look back to analyse all the champions none of them found in this category on the contrary they are habitual to go extra miles and giving little more of what they are actually paid / looking for.

This very habit of doing little extra has many great advantages which most of us don't realize at that particular time but with vintage it pays and brings us what is of more value and everyone loves to get.

We all look forward to gain Respect , Love , Money & finally better role elevations & TAGs . I found all of them very relative to our attitude & mindset.

Individuals with this flavor of Extra Miles -(Doing little more than what your are responsible for) have the special privilege to all the wish list which we all dream to get at each stage of our career.

Would like you to have a look at the biography of all the top position holders irrespective of the field they worked much harder and did sweat more for sure.

What is Important:

Maybe we don't sometimes get what we want but I am sure that with this nature of going "Extra-Miles" learning is always huge and Peace of Mind is guaranteed which is more rewarding.



Lets change the way we think and work for self satisfaction & greater learning every day.

Because

Key to fulfillment is not doing less,its Doing What Matters

# 7DaysPeople

Work-Life Balance:
There is no such thing as work and life there is only life & life , can we imagine a life without work, the balance has to be within us.Generally people suffer what they do hence they need Saturday & Sunday to enjoy.


If you try to do something which you don't like such situations naturally arise,we spend more time at our work than our home / life and if this work is not right how can you think of a better & peaceful life after all our days become our life.

If we want better life obviously work has to be better first.Its all about setting the priority right in our mind first everything else will fall in place automatically.

People who are clear about their priorities ,Saturday & Sunday or taking a break doesn't matter to them because they are at ease all the time.There is no question of stress & boredom because happiness is the basic pre-requisite here. 

"Work has to be lived and life has to be worked at"

Set the atmosphere right:
We generally focus on the weakness of our members rather enhancing their strengths and capabilities.
Every human being come in a form of seed which has all the possibilities to become a fruitful tree if put under right kind of soil & nurturing.

As a mentor,leader or responsible in-charge we need to own the responsibility to  create a loving & joyful , inspirational atmosphere where everyone works joyfully .

Once this is done rightly we need not monitor anyone and hence simply the best is bound to happen there is no question of break or weekends culture.Team will automatically turn into 7 days people because they will enjoy their work.

Blow hell out of you:
Whether you want hell or heaven ,happiness or misery, its all within. We generally blame others & situations as a cause of our misery but we forget that our life is absolutely our making & responsibility.We need to focus on as how we should be rather we should have.


Moment to moment awareness:
We need to understand  that every moment is inevitable.Every moment is unique in itself and has never been before and  will never be repeated ever hence thus we need to make the most out of it.

We can think of past and future but never be in . If we are able to develop this moment to moment awareness m sure this is more than enough to change our lives as this very experience would change our perspective and help turn every moment beautiful & worthwhile.

Its about the root not about the fruit:
We must understand  how to maintain balance amongst our body,mind ,energies ,emotions and more importantly situations around us.
With the daily practice of Yoga and Meditation we can always set the perspective right and become the one & union with all energies of this cosmos which has got all the possibilities to turn human beings into full fledged life and not an unused life. Yoga means moving towards a life where everything works better.

Lets Create A Fundamental Balance To Build A Most Beautiful Tower.

# DoYouHaveTheCourage?

Hi,

Generally we tend to manage things which are precious to us like wealth, health etc but unfortunately no one bothers to take the stock of life which is priceless and more importantly base of everything. 

Wealth is a medium to buy accessories for life not the life. Health is an important tool to experience this beautiful life. Since we are a mortal creature should we really not keep an account of this utmost precious thing too?

Few hours from now, and we will be entering into a new year, 2018. Just in a blink of eye we went through one more year. Sometimes we are at the top, happy,elated & successful and sometime at the bottom, sad,hopeless & experiencing failures .

In a nutshell every year that goes past bestow us with experiences leaving behind much deeper impact of life.

Since another year is about to pass away , this is probably the best time to pause from routine, look back & take a stock of what all is important & does matter the most.

Ø How better human being have we become this year?

Ø Has the quality of life improved?

Ø Have we become more joyful this year ?

 Ø Did we create something profound within ?

Ø Did we create something which is beyond & above ourselves?

Majority of young individuals generally plan to do some funniest as well as silliest thing unknowingly on this day as they want to be happy at this moment considering that this happiness would last accordingly. But this is very temporary in nature and goes away very quickly.

Can we really change this party idea and think of creating something which is much bigger, profound and beyond our limits leading to real sense of achievement & finally long lasting happiness not only for self but to everyone around us.

This would be an idea of being drunk all the time that too without drinking.This is high time we bring this change to general idea of partying. 

Are we not doing everything for happiness? Are we naturally not inclined to joyfulness? 

Like darkness can be vanished by lightening the lamp and not by kicking it out ,we need to bring better awareness & consciousness so that we understand what all is needed and to be done. 

With this awareness our actions would be based upon needs and not upon our likes & dislikes hence we need to know the inner world better for lasting happiness.

Courage to go beyond:

All creatures ,other than human beings, have a very simple and normal process of birth & death but we as human beings have capabilities to go beyond our limits & transform ourselves , things & world around us in between this natural L&D process.

We must strive & work upon our inner strength so that we build better capabilities to live well, irrespective of outside conditions & situations.If we become so ecstatic and clear within us , how can anyone or this world stop us from creating something very beautiful & profound?

We get this life without any investment and go with no capital in our hand hence we must learn to experience this life in between as this life cannot be framed or saved for future ,this only can be experienced & expanded ,we must understand that we have nothing to lose here anyway.

Shedding the old skin:
In order to experience all the different dimensions of life we need to come out of our comfort zone and must take calculated risk in life so that we don’t regret on last day on the death bed.

We need to develop fresh directions ,of looking at this life , which is not based upon our own developed logic so as to come out of this slaved life due to our own mind created boundaries.

          young fools are acceptable but old fools are not excused.

Competitive VS competent:

We must be thankful to the world for being so competitive and putting us into difficult situations . Competitiveness is not a problem at all as this give us great chance to expand & enhance ,challenge is not being competent enough.

If we work upon building our capabilities and competence there is no question of stress as competent individuals would always go beyond and be winners at ease.

Clarity not certainty:

It’s good that things are changing rapidly and there are uncertainty which is full of possibilities. If you wish for certainty that means you are looking for a situation which is stagnant.

Something which gets stagnant becomes very boring ,as a human being we always wish to come out of everything we are in or look for more & something new always.

                             What is new becomes old after 24 hours

No Resolution this time:

We need Resolution only when we are not naturally inclined to do something. Resolution without natural inclination becomes compulsion as a result this doesn’t last in most of the cases because this is by force & not by choice.

We as a human being suffer freedom the most ,otherwise prison wherein everything is so organized and just right ,everything happens at its due time could have been the most sought ,enjoyable & favourite place for everyone.

Without making any resolution this time let’s come afresh by becoming more aware & conscious of this life & inner world and have the courage to transform ourselves & the world around to be naturally joyful.

At the end only two things matters,How joy-full you are from within and 

How much joy you give to others?

Let’s shed away the burden of 2017 in terms of memories and move in 2018 completely with afresh directions ,more aliveness,alertness and awareness to experience the new dimensions of most amazing & beautiful life ahead to make it purposeful & more meaningful.

Be Courageous!