#Safar OR Suffer

#Goals Not So Imp

Most of us seem to be busy reaching out to the variety of the goals we set one after another in every phase of life.

This tendency of chasing goals & interested only in goals has shaped us so much goal oriented & focused that we damn care about the journey & the process .



#Right Approach

Since we are mortals and playing temporary roles, don't you think reaching destination is not so important but how joyfully we reach the destination & reach to goals is what matters the most.

# Clarity We Need

I believe that this idea of wanting mango only with least interest in caring & nurturing of the tree leading us to endless stress,misery restlessness and frustrations despite having best of the enablers, ease and opportunities these days.


#Conclusion

I think we are always trying to work at what is beyond us ,not taking care of what is in our hands.

#Solution-Let The Tree Decide The Taste

We need to understand that fruit is going to be natural & automated consequence of caring and nurturing the process .

lets be fully involved in the daily process & activities
of whatever we are dealing with without being so serious and worry much

Whatever we do -Lets do it well.

#GivingBack

The questions like "How one should live ? What to do or not to do to lead a good life?''top the chart most of the time in our mind.

I personally believe and strongly endorse that there are #3 basic fundamentals to lead a satisfactory & fulfilled life.

#1 Hard work:

We need to  understand that whatever we are into either into job ,business,services and sports or sitting ideal at home for that matter,we definitely are searching for happiness in our work . Hard-Work is a very essential ingredient which most of us either avoid or seems to be afraid of.

This becomes highly imperative that whatever we do, we must put our body, mind, soul and full energy into it not for any reason but for the very basic purpose of happiness which we are longing for as working halfheartedly is self damaging and doesn't serve the purpose.

Whatever we do joyfully becomes effortless. If you really care for something you don't have to be pushed then,

So finally there is no such word as hard-work it's basically only & only work if we start caring for whatever we do.

#2 Be life long student

We must learn to say that "I Don't Know''. This is a very powerful statement,the moment you utter these words that means you are open to new dimensions and willing to learn new things and finally become more receptive in nature.

Life is beautiful as it holds limitless dimensions which are more than sufficient for not making bored and keep us passionate , lively and enthusiastic.

One should understand briefness of this life and always aspire to explore which we haven't touched,felt or gone through yet.

I believe that all human beings are designed for bigger things not for simply eating,sleeping & routine stuff .
This unique creature on this cosmos unlike any other life is very well capable to go beyond and surpass their limitations which are mostly our own mind's created and doesn't exist actually.

Lets make good use of this inbuilt intelligence to find bigger & deserving happiness & joy ultimately its all our experiences which makes us feel better ,stronger and worthwhile.

#3 Give Back

As responsible human beings its our duty that whatever capacity we may be operating in we must strive harder to encourage,guide and support the next generation by passing our experiences so that Gen-Y doesn't repeat the same mistakes and emerge as better & much more efficient human beings to lead a smarter,full-fledged , fulfilled and purposeful life.

Working for self & family should not be the question at all but what we give back or how to find the purpose in other's happiness must top the chart in our Thoughts and Mind.

Lets raise our consciousness above-self and inculcate a culture of #GivingBack

#DoLessGetMore

Make or Break:Each one of us as individuals do have the very loving inclination of Getting More but in turn most of us don't even wish to do what we are actually paid for,  irony is that in 99.99% of the cases its us who move forward and seek opportunities / assignments keenly.

This particular attitude & nature of "Doing less " which is higher in current generation and pretty hard to change if got entangled with in the initial stage, is the basic instinct what make or break individuals in their career as this partiular habit never pays.

This conditional thought process if developed at initial stage of career gets converted into a very  peculiar attitude which not only harm such individual but people around too.This nature is probably sure shot way to frustration which most of us suffers the most.


Extra Miles:

If we take a pause and look back to analyse all the champions none of them found in this category on the contrary they are habitual to go extra miles and giving little more of what they are actually paid / looking for.

This very habit of doing little extra has many great advantages which most of us don't realize at that particular time but with vintage it pays and brings us what is of more value and everyone loves to get.

We all look forward to gain Respect , Love , Money & finally better role elevations & TAGs . I found all of them very relative to our attitude & mindset.

Individuals with this flavor of Extra Miles -(Doing little more than what your are responsible for) have the special privilege to all the wish list which we all dream to get at each stage of our career.

Would like you to have a look at the biography of all the top position holders irrespective of the field they worked much harder and did sweat more for sure.

What is Important:

Maybe we don't sometimes get what we want but I am sure that with this nature of going "Extra-Miles" learning is always huge and Peace of Mind is guaranteed which is more rewarding.



Lets change the way we think and work for self satisfaction & greater learning every day.

Because

Key to fulfillment is not doing less,its Doing What Matters

# 7DaysPeople

Work-Life Balance:
There is no such thing as work and life there is only life & life , can we imagine a life without work, the balance has to be within us.Generally people suffer what they do hence they need Saturday & Sunday to enjoy.


If you try to do something which you don't like such situations naturally arise,we spend more time at our work than our home / life and if this work is not right how can you think of a better & peaceful life after all our days become our life.

If we want better life obviously work has to be better first.Its all about setting the priority right in our mind first everything else will fall in place automatically.

People who are clear about their priorities ,Saturday & Sunday or taking a break doesn't matter to them because they are at ease all the time.There is no question of stress & boredom because happiness is the basic pre-requisite here. 

"Work has to be lived and life has to be worked at"

Set the atmosphere right:
We generally focus on the weakness of our members rather enhancing their strengths and capabilities.
Every human being come in a form of seed which has all the possibilities to become a fruitful tree if put under right kind of soil & nurturing.

As a mentor,leader or responsible in-charge we need to own the responsibility to  create a loving & joyful , inspirational atmosphere where everyone works joyfully .

Once this is done rightly we need not monitor anyone and hence simply the best is bound to happen there is no question of break or weekends culture.Team will automatically turn into 7 days people because they will enjoy their work.

Blow hell out of you:
Whether you want hell or heaven ,happiness or misery, its all within. We generally blame others & situations as a cause of our misery but we forget that our life is absolutely our making & responsibility.We need to focus on as how we should be rather we should have.


Moment to moment awareness:
We need to understand  that every moment is inevitable.Every moment is unique in itself and has never been before and  will never be repeated ever hence thus we need to make the most out of it.

We can think of past and future but never be in . If we are able to develop this moment to moment awareness m sure this is more than enough to change our lives as this very experience would change our perspective and help turn every moment beautiful & worthwhile.

Its about the root not about the fruit:
We must understand  how to maintain balance amongst our body,mind ,energies ,emotions and more importantly situations around us.
With the daily practice of Yoga and Meditation we can always set the perspective right and become the one & union with all energies of this cosmos which has got all the possibilities to turn human beings into full fledged life and not an unused life. Yoga means moving towards a life where everything works better.

Lets Create A Fundamental Balance To Build A Most Beautiful Tower.